I first wrote Net2Bed/Net2Wed a few years ago to show guys how to articulate their strongest, most interesting, edgy, bold, fullest selves in the online dating worl And the deeper I began to understand what was keeping men from being successful with women online, the more I realized that they key to it was not merely triggering attractio Once you start expressing yourself as the kind of man women truly yearn for and will reach out to -- the more you'll find you want to be that man. And no idea how quickly they turned women off with boring text, boring ideas, boring lists -- or simply by being gros No idea of what triggers DEEP attraction in a woman in an instant. I am rewriting the book right now to reflect some of the profound new learnings I have gained in the last year or s It is a guidebook to expressing your MOST ATTRACTIVE self to women online in a language they will FEE I originally wrote the book under my pen name, Grant Adams As a skilled writer -- of movies, of advertisements, as a Stanford writing instructor -- I had quickly mastered this skill for myself and my friends were amazed at the number of quality of women I was with every weeken Most men have NO IDEA how to write to a woman online. An Open Letter